Movies that explore different ways to be a dad

To help you celebrate Father’s Day this year let’s have a look some movies that reflect fatherhood in all its many forms.

While these films, available on Netflix via Optus SubHub,  are probably not movies you’d watch with young children due to their ratings, they do offer unique perspectives on the challenges and complexities of fatherhood.

In short: a poignant drama that presents a moving portrayal of fatherhood through the lens of intellectual disability.

I Am Sam directed by Jessie Nelson, follows Sam Dawson (Sean Penn), a man with a developmental disability who is fiercely devoted to his daughter, Lucy (Dakota Fanning). As Lucy reaches the age of seven and her cognitive abilities surpass Sam’s, the state intervenes, raising concerns about Sam’s ability to provide adequate care. The film’s central conflict revolves around Sam’s fight to regain custody of Lucy, with high-powered attorney Rita Harrison (Michelle Pfeiffer) taking on his case pro bono. Sean Penn’s portrayal of Sam is deeply empathetic, capturing both the character’s vulnerability and his profound love for his daughter. The film challenges societal perceptions of parenting and underscores that effective fatherhood is defined by emotional connection and commitment rather than intellectual ability.

In short: a comedy with a refreshing and humorous perspective on the transition to parenthood.

Directed by Curtis Vowell, Baby Done centres on Zoe (Rose Matafeo), an ambitious woman who finds herself unexpectedly pregnant. As Zoe grapples with the reality of impending motherhood, her partner Tim (Matthew Lewis) struggles to embrace his future role as a father. The film contrasts Zoe’s reluctance to fully accept her changing life with Tim’s anxieties about stepping up. Baby Done humorously depicts their individual and collective challenges as they navigate this major life transition. Rose Matafeo delivers a standout performance as Zoe, balancing humour with genuine emotional depth, while Matthew Lewis portrays Tim with a blend of charm and vulnerability. The film highlights the importance of communication and mutual support between partners as they prepare for parenthood and explores the emotional adjustments involved.

In short: a comedy that explores the chaotic and humorous side of father-child relationships.

In Father of the Year, directed by Tyler Spindel, college student Ben (Joey Bragg) has a strained relationship with his father, Jack (David Spade). The conflict escalates when Jack’s flamboyant best friend, Sal (Adam Sandler), enters the picture, bringing both chaos and unexpected wisdom. The film uses slapstick humour and exaggerated situations to examine the complexities of reconciliation and the influence of unconventional role models. David Spade portrays Jack with a mix of humour and emotional depth, capturing his struggle to connect with his son. Adam Sandler’s portrayal of Sal adds a larger-than-life energy to the film, providing a contrasting approach to fatherhood. The film delves into themes of personal growth, the impact of role models, and the challenges of bridging generational gaps, offering both laughs and thoughtful reflections.

In short: a film that provides a heartfelt exploration of the father-daughter relationship.

Directed by Lauren Miller Rogen, Like Father follows Rachel Hamilton (Kristen Bell), a successful executive who finds herself on a surprise honeymoon cruise with her estranged father, Harry (Kelsey Grammer). The cruise, initially intended for Rachel and her ex-fiancé, becomes a setting for her to confront and mend her fractured relationship with her father. The film balances comedy with emotional depth, as Rachel and Harry navigate their complicated past and attempt to rebuild their bond. Kristen Bell’s nuanced performance as Rachel captures her struggle with unresolved issues and Kelsey Grammer’s Harry brings emotional weight to his character. The supporting cast, including Seth Rogen, adds humour and insight, enhancing the film’s exploration of forgiveness and personal growth.

In short: a sports drama that intertwines explores fatherhood with a basketball theme/backdrop.

Hustle, directed by Jeremiah Zagar, features Stanley Sugerman (Adam Sandler), an NBA scout whose career and family life are intertwined. When Sugerman discovers Bo Cruz (Juancho Hernangómez), a talented basketball player from Spain, he sees an opportunity to revive his career while also balancing his responsibilities as a father. The film portrays Sugerman’s journey as both a professional challenge and a personal struggle, highlighting the sacrifices he makes for his family. Adam Sandler delivers a compelling performance, showcasing his range beyond comedy to portray a father deeply invested in his family’s future. Juancho Hernangómez’s portrayal of Cruz complements Sandler’s performance, reflecting the mentorship and support that Sugerman provides. The film’s realistic basketball scenes help the narrative along and allow sport to be used as a metaphor for parental dedication and sacrifice.

Read our review of other father-themed movies and include some titles you could watch with your younger kids.

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