| Scenario | Communication Pros and Cons |
| Asking someone out on a date | A phone call: immediate and you have an answer on the spot, you can also gauge interest levels by tone of voice. An SMS: it’s quick, easy and informal and little effort is needed upfront. What’s more, its casualness prevents any embarrassment if the party being asked out declines the invitation. |
| Cancelling a first date | A phone call: makes it easier to ensure your message is received in the right way and may help soften the blow. Easier to explain, apologise and reschedule if you want to. An SMS: could be missed or not be received in time. Although, may allow the organiser to avoid embarrassment if they suspect the other party will be upset. |
| Breaking up with someone | A phone call: gives the other person a chance to say how they feel. However, may result in a painful or emotional conversation. An SMS: allows a statement to be made without mixing in too much emotion. The message needs to be worded carefully so it is not misinterpreted. |
| Announcing your engagement | A phone call: could be time-consuming if you are calling a lot of people whereas using Facebook: casts such a wide net that you don’t have to worry about leaving anyone out |